tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2245537621425680980.post749675922442251335..comments2023-12-26T18:39:58.979+00:00Comments on a part time girl: Stupid Compromisesa part time girlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11274723128258980188noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2245537621425680980.post-45727568845144198272014-02-06T18:20:31.763+00:002014-02-06T18:20:31.763+00:00Your right once again. I dont think anyone likes h...Your right once again. I dont think anyone likes having conversations like this but it needs to be done I think. Ive got things I want to do that could cause issues, and we need to talk things through.<br /><br />Theres never a good time for this is there? :)a part time girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11274723128258980188noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2245537621425680980.post-6440774010418821842014-02-06T18:18:09.066+00:002014-02-06T18:18:09.066+00:00"Easier doesnt mean better"... Very true..."Easier doesnt mean better"... Very true.<br /><br />I think this was a bit of a rage post as I tend to from time to time when things dont go my way. I definitely think a conversation needs to be had with my gf at some point about what I want to be doing.a part time girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11274723128258980188noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2245537621425680980.post-41801728090636012462014-02-01T18:21:09.921+00:002014-02-01T18:21:09.921+00:00The eyebrow thing is kind of silly. No one would n...The eyebrow thing is kind of silly. No one would notice, and even if they did, it's not like they'd assume "crossdresser" from that. Don't most cis guys do at least some eyebrow grooming anyways?<br /><br />I suppose a lot of things in life would be easier without the people we love. I know it's not the same situation, but, as I'm considering coming out to my parents, I can't help thinking, "It'd be so much easier to avoid this conversation by just never seeing them again." Yet obviously that's not an option. So yeah, it probably would be easier without her, but "easier" doesn't mean "better."<br /><br />It's great that you're getting out as Aimee next week though. Hope you have a great time! :)Ashley W.https://www.blogger.com/profile/16520401312406852554noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2245537621425680980.post-6706569206865783112014-01-31T19:31:04.169+00:002014-01-31T19:31:04.169+00:00Oh my ..... this is a tough one because the truth ...Oh my ..... this is a tough one because the truth is that no one is likely to notice. I found that with Mrs B in the know she was hyper conscious to the point that at one stage she wouldn't let me go out with a white scarf on .... things change.<br /><br />The reality is though you are going to have to talk to her about this. It's not a question about compromises - its about understanding what you both want and need from the relationship. If there is one thing that will cause issues its resentment (on either side) about Aimee so setting rules and sticking to them is important. I think sometimes we shy away from being upfront and honest about ourselves and our needs because we feel grateful (?), feel we shouldnt rock the boat. To be honest you shouldn't feel like this - she is with you because she wants to be and your Aimee side is part of person she wants to be with. Perhaps its because of the Aimee side (whether seen or not seen) that makes you special to her ?<br /><br />Opening dialogue might be hard but the surely better than unhappy silences ?<br /><br />Good luck Aimee.Beccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14342124169953960479noreply@blogger.com